Monday, August 18, 2014

Your Brother and Sister

Dearest Harper,

Leia and Winston (and Orko before him) were our kids before you came along. We called them our fur babies.

We adopted Leia from the SPCA the month after we got married. We brought her home on December 14, 2002, and that's the day we celebrate her birthday each year. Her previous family surrendered her because she escaped the back yard and ate baby diapers. Her name was Lucky, but we changed it to Leia after Princess Leia in the Star Wars movies. They told us she was about 2 when we adopted her. She's an Australian Cattle Dog mix. They were vague on what she's mixed with, but looking at her, you can see there's some Pit Bull in her. She is a SMART dog and very well behaved, despite the fact that she sheds enough for, like, 37 dogs. You'll grow up with her dog hair all over your clothes - get used to it. She'll turn 14 a couple months after you're born. She's still going strong for being an old lady, just losing her hearing. I think she'll be your protector.



We adopted Orko from a breeder in the Fall of 2005. He was an AKC certified Schnauzer that she had purchased for at least $1000 when he was a puppy to use as a stud. When we met him he was 7 years old and losing interest in the ladies, as she called it. She loved him, but wanted him to live the rest of his life as a pet, a life she couldn't offer him with all the other dogs she had. His name was Lady Dusty's Buster Brown and she called him Buster, but we changed it to Orko, after a character in one of Daddy's favorite childhood cartoons, He Man. It took him a while to adjust to being an inside dog, but for the most part he did, even if he did choose to occasionally sleep on a pile of newspapers rather than the comfy dog bed he had. He would let you do anything to him, he was very mild mannered and easy going. In early 2010 he was diagnosed with diabetes, which, after much research and discussion, we decided not to treat because of the financial and time burden on us, as well as the fact that he was already almost 12 years old. He lived a good life until the day before he died, you'd never know he was sick. On April 26th he had two huge seizures, and we decided it was time, so we put him to sleep, one of the most awful experiences of our lives.




In October of 2010 we bought a Schnauzer puppy from a friend's sister, who was selling them at a super low price because she didn't know to get their tails cropped early, and since Schnauzers aren't supposed to have tails, she couldn't sell them for what she wanted. He was born August 31st, and we brought him home on Halloween, at exactly 2 months old. We named him Winston, after the character Winston Wolf in Pulp Fiction. Daddy and I had never had a puppy, but we figured it out, and he's a good boy. He is super playful and  has lots and lots of personality. He is a Momma's boy - loves to snuggle me and follows me everywhere. He'll turn 4 a couple months before you're born. I think you're going to be his new snuggle buddy.



We'll always have dogs in the house - they're fun, entertaining, and they'll help teach you about  responsibility. Plus, they're a good example for how humans should behave because they give unconditional love.

I love you,

Mommy

Thursday, August 7, 2014

28 Weeks

Dearest Harper,

We officially made it to the third trimester today!

Two days ago I took my 1 hour glucose tolerance test, to screen for gestational diabetes, and it came back way high. They said the cut off is below 135, and I was 159. Ouch! So today I had to do a 3 hour test - I got my blood drawn fasting, then I drank a drink that had 100 grams of sugar, then 1 hour, 2 hours, and 3 hours after, I got my blood drawn. Daddy kept me company while I sat in the lab all that time, and Daddy is so good at keeping me entertained. He's a fun guy.

I wouldn't be surprised if I end up having it - this pregnancy has been pretty easy so far, and they don't call it The Nurse Curse for nothing. Gestational diabetes wouldn't be the end of the world, I've done low carb diets before, but fingers crossed I don't have it, because I really like carbs. A lot. I've been craving fruit this pregnancy, I could eat pounds and pounds of it, plus cereal and ice cream are two of my favorite foods. But I'd give them all up for you, baby girl, because keeping you healthy is so much more important than nectarines, rainbow sherbet on a sugar cone, and Cinnamon Toast Crunch.

I love you,

Mommy

Saturday, July 12, 2014

Your Name

Dearest Harper,

We always had a boy name picked out, but our girl name was never set in stone. If you were a boy you would have been Xavier. We were having a hard time agreeing on a middle name, but as it turns out, the tests showed you didn't have those parts, and we didn't need one after all.

We were originally going to name you Piper, but discovered that Piper was becoming more and more popular. My name was one of the most popular names for the year I was born, and I was always one of at least two, sometimes three, Jessicas in class. I didn't want that for you, so we switched to Harper. I have no idea where we came up with it. Had we looked it up before we decided, we would have discovered that it is also rising in popularity, but even after finding that out we stuck with it because Daddy and I both really liked it.

As for your middle name, that always requires an explanation... Daddy is a huge movie fan, so one day, while discussing names, he threw out Ripley. He did it thinking I'd never go for it, but I liked the logic behind it:
In the 1979 movie Alien, an actress named Signourney Weaver played a character named Ellen Ripley. Throughout the movie she proves time and time again that she is a smart, tough, no nonsense woman who doesn't take shit from anyone - exactly the kind of strong woman we want you to grow up to be.

And so you became Harper Ripley Valle.

I love you,

Mommy

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Viability

Dearest Harper,

Today marks 24 weeks of pregnancy and the sweet relief of viability, meaning that every day from today forward, you have a stronger and stronger chance of surviving on our side of the world. While we hope and pray every single day that we won't meet you until October, doing what I do for a living, I know all too well that shit happens. Today is a HUGE milestone in our peace of mind for your survival in this world.



I love you,

Mommy

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Why This Blog?

Dearest Harper,

You are, without a doubt, the most anticipated, long awaited, much desired baby in our circle of family and friends. To commemorate you, this amazing gift Daddy and I have been given, we decided to start a blog that you can come back and read when you're old enough to understand and appreciate it. It's a commitment on our part, to write about our families, our history, you growing in my womb, your delivery, and our adventures in life together as a family, but you're worth it. I think this will be an amazing gift to you later in life.

I love you,

Mommy